The reason he seems uninterested is because he just doesn’t want you like that. Let me tell you something about men, we go after what we want. We go after it with determination. The only men who don’t put in work like that are men who lack confidence or men who are not that interested. Ladies when you meet a man that is interested in you, he will consistently carve out a space for himself in your life. You won’t have to wonder when you’ll hear from him again. You won’t have to guess how he feels about you because he will communicate his emotions as best as he can. You won’t have to wonder if he wants to be with you exclusively because he will raise that subject and make it very clear that he wants you to be the woman that he needs in his life. He will take time planning out thoughtful dates and not just hit you up in the middle of the night just to chill. An interested man makes it his goal to build the strongest connection with you that he can, as well as shut down any and all competition. If a man is not pursuing you like that, he is just not that interested in you.