Stop beating yourself up because the relationship didn’t work out. Stop taking all of the responsibility behind you and someone else not being together anymore. At the end of the day, all you can do is put your best foot forward when you are trying to establish something special with someone else. You don’t have control over the outcome. You don’t have control over how much effort they give or how much love they express back. All you can do is love someone the best way that you know how and try to give them happiness more than you give them headaches. We are not meant to stay connected with everyone we fall in love with. Sometimes you grow and evolve better as a person when you finally let go of wanting fairy tales to happen with certain people. One ended relationship is not the end of your love life. You will still have another opportunity in the future to be in the kind of relationship that you feel like you deserve.