A Woman’s Influence

Morning Word
Ladies we love it when you speak life into us. We love it when you can speak encouraging words into us because it helps us grow into becoming greater men. Your words help plant seeds of greatness inside of your man. That is one of the reasons why the right woman in the right man’s life will always carry a special kind of significance. Your love can inspire the greatest things inside of him. He can become a lot more confident. He can become a lot more focused and driven towards his dreams. He can keep himself motivated with his goals for longer periods of time just behind the goodness of your love and your words. Ladies you have an unbelievable amount of influence in your man’s life. The more you speak into us, the greater we end up becoming.
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Heart Broken

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You get your heart broken and for a period of time you feel like it’s the end of the world. To know that you cannot create anymore memories with someone you invested so much in, doesn’t just sit well with you at first. It’s like a struggle between both the heart and the mind. Because emotionally you are still attached to the situation, but mentally you are over everything and just want to move on with your life. But then time passes. Emotionally you become stronger. The wound starts to heal. And you’re able to reach a point where you can reflect back without being emotionally affected. And the whole time you are looking back, God is looking forward to you meeting the person he has designed for you. Sometimes it’s less about people walking out of your life, and more about God walking them to the exit. See breakups never make sense while your heart is still breaking. But after you have healed and became whole again, you are able to look at love from a different and deeper perspective. Trust me, when God subtracts someone from your life, it’s because he is working on bringing you someone who can double your happiness in return.
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When The Time Is Right

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I still believe that a good heart will eventually find its way back to love. I still believe that no matter what you may have went through in your past, someone out there in the world is still praying to have a person like you one day. Just because you are single, that doesn’t mean that you lack importance or that you can’t be a blessing to someone else in the future. We have to start speaking victory over our love life and not defeat. Instead of saying, “I doubt I’ll ever fall in love again”, start saying, “My next relationship will be my best relationship.” I want you to understand that, good hearts don’t have expiration dates when it comes to love. There is no certain time frame or small window of opportunity that you have before your time runs out. You will fall in love again one day when the time is right, not because you time it right. Don’t let your good heart turn sour because you want things to happen on your own time. IG@woodtheinspiration

Pouring Positive Things

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It’s about pouring positive things into each other. It’s about being each other’s biggest fan, biggest supporter and biggest inspiration while you both walk together in love. It seems like nowadays we all get lost in the superficials. We want people to be a certain height. We want people to make a certain amount of money and so on. If you run across someone who makes you better as a person when you are around them, that is someone worth holding on to. Everyone can’t help trigger great things inside of you and still love you like you are the only thing that truly matters. Find someone you can have stimulating conversations with. Someone you can learn from and grow with when you are around them. Genuine hearts and genuine people like that are rare these days.
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Waiting

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Waiting is just a part of the process to being happy one day. You have to stick to your guns until you meet that one person that would make you regret not being in a relationship with them. Now it doesn’t mean that you two will have the perfect relationship because there is no such thing. You both will still have to put in the hours of learning how to gel with each other while you both learn each other’s love language but, at least you’ll have someone worth taking a chance on love with. They have to be special enough that, you wouldn’t mind sharing a piece of your peace with them. Inviting someone into your life on a deeper level is a power most people don’t understand and a privilege other people often take for granted. Start being more selective with sharing your time. Start being more selective with sharing your peace. And start being more selective with sharing your heart.
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Someone Special

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If you have someone in your life who is willing to travel to the moon and back to put a smile on your face, then you truly are a lucky person. Stop focusing on things and people that are on the outside of your relationship, and start paying more attention to what is going on inside of it. Don’t miss out on the special moments because you are too busy focusing on the wrong things. If your mate hasnt given you any reason not to trust them, then give them the benefit of the doubt and stop trying to question their motives. Stop letting your trust issues and insecurities poison one of the best relationships you have ever had. Allow yourself to be loved on the highest level by letting your guard down and by truly embracing who you have in your life wholeheartedly.
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Disagreements

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When you are in love, sometimes you and your significant other will butt heads. Disagreements are a part of the process when you both are trying to dig deeper and root each other stronger in love. The best way to make it out of a disagreement and save the relationship is to focus on the problem and not the person. When you keep your energy focused on the problem, you both give attention to the real issue without doing damage to what you both truly mean to each other. Sometimes you both will have to agree to disagree. Sometimes one of you will have to be the bigger person and take the first step by breaking the ice with communication. Sometimes you have to calm down, relax, reflect and think. At the end of the day, winning an argument is not worth losing the person. Put your pride aside and put your love for each other at the forefront – if you truly want to make it through the seasons when you both don’t see eye to eye with each other.
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Good News

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They say it’s all about the first person you want to tell the good news to. The person who has given you unwavering support since the very first day you two have met. The person who not only supports your dreams but stays up with you all night to help you come up with ways on achieving those dreams. At the end of the day, all we really want is love and support. In a world where everybody is trying to discourage you, having someone in your corner who is willing to walk with you through the madness is truly a blessing. As long as we have that one consistent person in our corner, nothing else even matters. As long as we have that one person’s love that we can lean on during our darkest days, finding our way back to the light will never feel impossible like it used to. We all deserve to have that special kind of love that we can always count on.
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Men

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Every time a relationship ends, it is not always the man’s fault. Sometimes women can have this misconception that men do not value healthy relationships anymore. They will take a few bad apples (in this case men) who have emotionally, verbally and physically abused them, and use this as a gauge to measure other men by which isn’t fair. Sometimes a woman can run a man off because it is impossible for her to conceive the idea that he really wants to bring her more pleasure than pain. Two of the biggest problems men often face is; dealing with the mistakes another man made before him, and having to prove himself over and over again to a woman who just can’t receive his love as being genuine and from the heart. Using past experiences to unfairly judge someone new in your life, will have you missing all of the small details that truly makes them a special person. If you have a man that truly wants to love you, let him love you without using your past to sway how you will love him back in return.
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Her Love

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If she is special to you, her love won’t come easy. Sometimes when a good man is pursuing a good woman, he may find himself faced with certain challenges. Sometimes he may have to hop over a few extra hurdles that she may have neglected to put the last few men through. Sometimes he may have to give her room to breathe, before he can be her breath of fresh air. Sometimes patience is the best thing a man can give a woman who is learning how to trust again. Sometimes when a woman gets hurt, she loses faith in not only her ability to pick a decent man but her ability to trust the next one as well. Sometimes it will take going the extra mile just to see her smile. Sometimes it may take a while for a man to change a scarred woman’s perception of men into a more positive light. However, if you can learn to be a little bit more patient with a good one considering all that she has been through, when you finally do receive her love, it will be one of the greatest treasures that you have ever possessed.
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