The problem with trying to find someone special or trying to find love is, you end up doing one of three things; you end up looking for it in the wrong person, you end up looking for it in the wrong places or you end up looking for it at the wrong time. Sometimes it’s better to wait on love than it is to rush on lust. Sometimes it’s just easier letting love find you while you are out living the rest of your life. I think a lot of people feel like if they are not out here consciously looking for it, they are lowering their chances of having someone meaningful in their life one day. Love will find you when it is meant to happen in your life. Stop running yourself crazy thinking that you have to do something extra to change your chances with love. Live your life. Enjoy your family. Enjoy your friends. Be a blessing to someone who could really use an unexpected smile in their life. The more love you spread in the other areas of your life, the better you will feel as you patiently wait for that one special person.