I Hope

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My hope is that when you find love again, I hope that it is everything you ever dreamed about. I hope that you find a love that has the power to tear down the painful walls of your past, so that you both can build a new wall filled with beautiful memories. I hope that you find someone who makes your heart beat faster. I hope that you find someone who you can; trust, communicate and understand on levels you never established with anyone before. I hope they make you feel safe and protected. I hope they make you laugh, even when you don’t want to. I hope they make you smile, even when you can’t remember how. I hope they help you work through all of your flaws, so you can grow and evolve in ways you never knew you could. I hope they pour in you and never drain you. I hope they make you shed beautiful tears in the quiet moments like you always see in the movies. I just hope that you find a love that truly makes you happy.
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Self Esteem Issues

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So many people battle with self esteem problems everyday. So many people think that the cure to getting over their self esteem issues is being loved by someone else. And while another person’s love can help transform us and inspire us to grow into becoming better individuals, it doesn’t have the power to solve every personal problem that we find ourselves running away from. We have to love the skin that we are in. We have to stop making other people responsible for how we “personally” feel about ourselves. Love starts with self. Loving who you are makes it easier for other people to be in love with you. I said this before and I’ll say it again, “how we feel about ourselves, infects itself into our relationships with other people.” A low self esteem will have you dealing with a person that you have no business dealing with. A low self esteem will have you pushing away good people when it comes to love because you can’t even identify what it is on a very basic personal level when it comes to loving yourself. We have to take responsibility for taking care of our emotions first before trying to be in love with other people.
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Waiting

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Waiting on true love can be a struggle.You will have days where you’ll know that you are doing what’s right for your heart and for your future but, you will also have days where you feel discouraged because nothing has happened within a reasonable time frame. Next thing you know, you will start to over think a lot. You will start to wonder if love has walked out of your life already. You will start to wonder if you have missed your moment. You will start to wonder if, had you done things differently in the past, would you be in a better position today. You will start thinking about all these things that you can’t do anything about and things that you don’t have any control over and it will start to change your mood and your faith in love in a negative way. Don’t let the fact that a lot of time has passed, push you into the arms of the wrong person. Don’t give up the person you really need in the future, just to settle with someone you really dont need today. Grow patient with love. Exercise more faith in love. Let your stars align so that you and your future mate can eventually cross paths one day.
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Find Yourself

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When you take time discovering who you are as a person, simultaneously you will end up figuring out the kind of person that you need in your life. When you don’t know who you are, chances are you will never know who you are searching for. You can’t figure out who you need without figuring out who you are first. Search your heart for clarity and understanding. Compare what it is you want out of life versus what it is you really need out of life. Instead of running away from your solitude, you should be growing more comfortable inside of it. When you know who you are and can identify the things that you love about yourself and about life, then you should look for the kind of person that can reflect that.
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Wait on someone who

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So many people settle for being someone else’s side person when there is someone else out there waiting to make them the only one. Don’t let impatience drive you into the arms of someone who is not committed to loving you the right way. There is nothing wrong with waiting on a good thing. There is nothing wrong with being single for a few years as you wait on someone worth getting to know. Wait on someone who is committed to your growth. Wait on someone who can love you with an honest heart and a clear mind. Wait on someone who can consciously love on the same level like you can. Wait on the person that makes you smile every morning, and not the person who has you wondering when your next smile is coming. See when someone loves you and is crazy about you; they speak with love, they care with love, they act with love and they help you grow as a person with love.
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A Man Ready For Love

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A Man Ready For Love…
“Would rather break down your barriers instead of breaking your heart. A man ready for love, is looking for a woman that he can see himself building a serious future with. He will be committed to investing in you and helping you grow. He understands that your love is paramount and he will treat you like you are a priority. When you voice your concerns about the relationship, he will listen to understand instead of listening to reply. He will be your biggest supporter and your best friend. He will make time for you and not just give you the leftover scraps of his day. He will be someone that you can consistently depend on mentally and emotionally. He will try his best to create a heaven on earth for you, so that he can receive the highest level of your love.”
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Let it go

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Let that pain go so you can finally start living your life. You will never be able to soar and spread your wings like God intended you to do if you keep carrying around all these heavy bricks and burdens from your past. Whatever hurt you or whoever hurt you, let it go so that you can finally start living a prosperous life. It’s ok to go through your emotions when the wound is still fresh but, if you keep picking at something that happened to you in your past, it will never fully heal. Stop making trips to revisit your pain. You can’t move forward always going backwards. You have your whole life ahead of you.
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A Man Ready For Love

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A Man Ready For Love…
“Already understands that, if she is special, her love won’t come easy. He already knows that he can’t hide behind his strength 24/7. He knows that he will have to eventually be transparent with his feelings and open up so that his relationship with his woman can reach a deeper level of love. He knows that she won’t be perfect. He knows that she will have her own set of flaws just like he will have his own. He knows there may be times when she may be difficult to deal with. He knows there may be times when they don’t see eye to eye on everything. However, his unwavering love for her, will always keep him planted in her life. His protective presence will always give her the reassurance that she can feel safe around him. He understands the importance of pouring positive affirmations into his woman but also knows that she will need space and sunlight to grow in her own direction. He will listen to understand. He will build with her instead of trying to destroy what they have. He will be a friend that she can trust and the man that she needs in her life.” IG@woodtheinspiration

Making Her Feel Safe

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Something about his presence made her feel safe. Something about his energy gave her a certain kind of peace that she has never felt with any man before. He genuinely cared about her. He wanted to know things about her that no other man cared to know before. He wanted to know the secret behind her beautiful smile. He wanted to know about her long term dreams & goals and how he could be a part of helping her achieve them. He wanted to know what she has been through so he could understand her scars and love her on a deeper level. When he looked at her, all he saw was an amazing woman. He wanted to be the man that broke down all her barriers. He wanted to be the man that changed her perception of there being no good men left. He wanted to be the man that sparked her belief in love again. He wanted to be her center of peace, in the middle of her storm.
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Stop Looking Back

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Stop using your past to gauge whether or not love is coming into your life. Stop looking back if you are really looking forward to having someone special one day. When you look back on your past, you should be looking back with a mindset of learning from your mistakes. You should be looking back remembering that what you have been through, will always aid you towards growing into a better person. Stop feeling like you are cursed or that you have bad luck because you have been through a few bad situations with a few bad people. All of us go through trials. All of us have been through a few things designed to break our spirit, faith and beliefs. However, life always gives us the gift of redemption and the gift of bouncing back. You could be hurting today and end up being happy tomorrow. Don’t be so hard on yourself. Learn to be more proud, patient and positive as great things start to take place in your life.
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