Be Happy Again

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Regardless of what happened yesterday, today is still a good day to be happy again. Leave the past where it is so you can keep moving forward. Just because they hurt you, it doesnt mean that you cant heal. Just because they couldn’t see your value, it doesnt mean that someone else never will. Just because the relationship ended, it doesnt mean that it is the end of your love life. Be happy with yourself today. Celebrate the fact that you are still a great person and that you didnt allow one bad experience to control how you approach the rest of your life. Live, Love and Laugh, one day at a time.
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Toxic People

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The sooner you free yourself of toxic relationships, the happier you’ll be. Stop associating yourself with people who always carry bad energy. Stop sharing your time with people who are always so negative. Stop giving third and forth chances to people that should have never even been given a single chance in the first place. So many of us keep ourselves tied to draining situations with draining people and then wonder why we always feel so depleted and hurt at the end of the day. You can’t keep surrounding yourself with negative people who suck the life out of you and then complain later about how positive things never take place in your life. Cut ties with toxic people if you want to start seeing some positive things happen in your life.
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Being Single

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Being single with a good heart can still be a struggle at times. Sometimes it’s hard to wrap your mind around the fact that you still do not have someone special in your life at the moment. People you thought were going to be good options, turned out to be no good for you at all. Then you have days when all you do is wake up to everyone else’s good news. People around you are all getting engaged now. You just found out that your best friend has a child on the way. And all while you have the grace to help celebrate everyone else’s special moments, you still can’t help but wonder when those same moments will begin to take place in your own life. Listen, we meet who we need not when we want to, but when we need to. Sometimes it’s just not your season to be in love with anyone yet. So continue growing wise and developing as a person because you never know how close you are to it being your season next.
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Meeting You Changed Her

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Meeting you changed her as a woman. When you are around, she finds herself growing and glowing at the same time. And when you are away, she finds herself appreciating you a lot more. Around you, she is always on cloud 9. Her wings just cut differently through the air when you are around. You never put her down and make her feel like her opinion doesn’t matter. You kissed her mental and emotional scars so much that she has found herself being further and further removed from previous pains now. You gave her hope, when every other man before you gave her doubt. What made you special was, you wanted to win her over in the proper order. You wanted to be her best friend way before you wanted to be the best man that she has ever had.
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Being By Yourself

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You have to be fine with being by yourself. The world we are living in today, has more people out here trying to use and abuse your heart, than people who genuinely want to be let inside of it. Above all else guard your heart because everything you do flows from it. There is nothing wrong with you taking your time letting people in. Everyone doesn’t have the best intentions. Some people want to waste your time. Some people want to steal your love and parts of your soul. Some people are just looking for someone else to pass their pain onto. Unfortunately when you open up your heart for people, you open yourself up to receiving all kinds of energy, both good and bad. Screen people before you let them emotionally stay with you. Everyone doesn’t deserve to have a room in your heart.
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Not Meant To Be

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Sometimes things are just not meant to be. Sometimes the only way you can move on from someone is to realize that you gave it your all and that you loved them completely empty. I think that when relationships end, the best thing that you can do for yourself is learn from what it is you did wrong and build on what it is you did right. Sometimes you may never know the true reason why it ended. Every question you have is not meant to be answered, and every person you love is not meant to stick around forever. Live your life in a manner that will always have you moving forward no matter what happens to you. Relationships that aren’t meant to be, always have expiration dates. Your “ending” is also your “new beginning” to do things differently and in a better way the next time love decides to come around again. And when it does, try your best loving that new person like you have never been hurt before.
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An Uninterested Man Vs An Interested Man

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The reason he seems uninterested is because he just doesn’t want you like that. Let me tell you something about men, we are natural born hunters. We go after what we want with a vengeance. The only men who don’t put in work like that are men who lack confidence or men who are not that interested. Ladies when you meet a man that is interested in you, he will consistently carve out a space for himself in your life. You won’t have to wonder when you’ll hear from him again. You won’t have to guess how he feels about you because he will communicate his emotions as best as he can. You won’t have to wonder if he wants to be with you exclusively because he will raise that subject and make it very clear that he wants you to be the woman that he needs in his life. He will take time planning out thoughtful dates and not just hit you up in the middle of the night just to chill. An interested man makes it his goal to build the strongest connection with you that he can, as well as shut down any and all competition. If a man is not pursuing you like that, he is just not that interested in you.
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Happiness

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Happiness has to be found within yourself before you can truly find it with someone else. So many people are trying to avoid working on themselves. So many people think that if they pick a better person to be in love with, it will fix the rest of their problems. Love is not about finding someone who you can dump all of your problems on. Some people don’t realize that, the work you do on yourself, will always play a part in your next relationship. To find a better person, you also have to be a better person as well.
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Heartbroken

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And then you get your heart broken. For the longest time you will find yourself trying to make sense of everything. You will try to pinpoint the day you and the other person started going in different directions. You will start over analyzing mistakes you have made wishing that you could get a few moments back. Maybe you didn’t say “I love you” enough. Maybe you didn’t give enough effort and attention to keep the other person happy. In hindsight, how you broke up doesn’t matter, but why you broke up does. Sometimes a good person will exit your life so that a greater person can enter. You have to understand that how you love may not necessarily fulfill someone else’s needs and vice versa. We all require different things from different people. What may quench your thirst, may not satisfy someone else’s hunger. You just have to find someone who can; love like you do, who can appreciate the things that you do and who can understand what love is like you do.
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Listen To Your Lady

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Just because a woman was built as the weaker vessel in a relationship, it doesn’t mean that a man should view her thoughts and input on various subjects as the weaker opinion. Give your lady the opportunity of sharing her wisdom and knowledge on different subjects without being so easily dismissive. Respecting and appreciating her opinion, will open up the door for the both of you to communicate on even deeper levels. However, if you make her feel like her insight will never be valued, it can lead to her shutting down on you causing an even greater disconnection. IG@woodtheinspiration