We are so stuck on being independent that, sometimes we can let our own independence ruin our relationships. We enter relationships with such a disposable attitude and then wonder why we are always single and can never keep anyone around worth having. We forget to remember that the person we are in love with needs to feel needed. How can we find love if mentally we have already adapted the attitude that we don’t need a companion? Some of us aren’t even looking for love, we are looking for people who can stroke our ego’s. We have gotten away from learning how to work together with each other. Somewhere we took a wrong turn and started letting money, social status and our ego’s, become more important than our need in having someone special in our lives. We all truly need someone who can love us and help keep us grounded in life.