Sometimes you can be the reason why you haven’t met a good man or a good woman. If it is impossible for you to conceive the idea that a good man or woman exist, then what is the point of dating? If you see everyone you meet through the same pair of damaged shades you wear everyday, then how can you ever see the good in someone else? You will never be able to see the blessing another person can be in your life if you are always looking at everyone through a damaged filter. Stop letting past experiences affect how you see the world and the other people in it. You could be overlooking a great person right in front of you.