Wait On Someone Who

So many people settle for being someone else’s side person, when there is someone else out there waiting to make them the only one. Don’t let impatience drive you into the arms of someone who is not committed to loving you the right way. There is nothing wrong with waiting on a good thing. There is nothing wrong  with being single for a few years as you wait on someone worth getting to know. Wait on someone who is committed to your growth. Wait on someone who can love you with an honest heart and a clear mind. Wait on someone who can consciously love on the same level like you can. Wait on the person that makes you smile every morning, and not the person who has you wondering when your next smile is coming. See when someone loves you and is crazy about you; they speak with love, they care with love, they act with love and they help you grow as a person with love.
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Opening Up About Problems

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You should have the kind of relationship with someone that allows you the freedom to talk about anything on your mind. You will be surprised at how many relationships could have been saved if one person would have just opened up about how they truly felt about a situation. Just because someone loves you deeply, it does not mean that they can read your mind. If your mate is doing  something or has done something that does not sit right with you, tell them how you really feel and give them the opportunity to make adjustments so that things can be right again. If you are with someone that cares, they will do everything in their power to help get things back on track. If you are with someone that doesn’t care, your concerns will go in one ear and out the other and nothing will change in their behavior. But whatever you do, don’t continue to punish the person you are with, if you haven’t given them the opportunity to make any real changes.
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Love

When it comes to love, we reach our potential with each other not when we hold back, but when we give more. Whatever you give the relationship feeds the relationship. You can’t keep a plant alive by depriving it of one of the most important things it really needs which is water. And you can’t keep a relationship evolving by depriving it of one of the major things it really needs which is love. You have to trust letting a person see through your entire spirit even if you have things inside of you that you may not like. A man’s love will protect and ease a woman out of her insecurities, and a woman’s love will nurture and move a man further away from his. Our love for each other helps us heal and deal with things we may not necessarily like about ourselves. This is a major reason why the right person in your life will start having you feel better about yourself. The prescription to your pain isn’t given to you, it’s given to the person who can bring out the best in you.
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Unconditional Love

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That unconditional love usually is the best love. It’s the love where you both pour into each other so much that it overflows into everything that you do. It’s the love where you have a best friend. It’s the love where you never break trust. It’s the love where you can have healthy disagreements with each other. It’s the love where even when you get on each other’s last nerve, your first nerve and first instinct will always be to love them regardless. It’s the love where you don’t keep reminding them of their flaws. It’s the love where you don’t fall asleep until you know they have made it home safe. It’s the love where you wake up to long beautiful text messages with breakfast in bed and 3 sliced strawberries. It’s the love where telephone conversations have you losing track of time like you both were in high school all over again. It’s the love where you feel like a much better person with them than without them. That unconditional love definitely is the best love.
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When Bitterness Fades

When the bitterness fades, healing can begin to take place. You will find yourself letting go of anger. You will find yourself letting go of grudges. You will find yourself letting go of regrets. And when that happens, you will be able to reflect back on previous relationships and take away the lessons you have learned, instead of always taking away the pain. So many of us allow one closed chapter to prevent us from writing the rest of our story. We can still author ourselves into having a beautiful ending. One ended relationship does not mean the end of love. So whatever you do; keep living, keep learning and keep smiling. You haven’t even scratched the surface of experiencing your best days yet.
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Work On You

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Learn to work on yourself while you wait on that one special person to enter your life. Now is the perfect time to work on your own self growth. Now is the perfect time to work on having better eating habits. Now may be the time to pick up a hobby and do something for someone else who may be less fortunate than you. I’ve learned that the more I gave genuinely to something or someone else and didn’t expect anything back, the more I started getting even more blessed in the long run. You putting positive energy into yourself and into the world will start to shape the universe in your favor. It’s never too late to work on being the best version of you. And it’s never too late to work on having a lighter softer heart.
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Unfollow People

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Sometimes you have to unfollow people in real life. You cant keep letting people steal pieces of your spirit because when they leave it’ll be you putting the pieces to your soul back together again. Seasonal people come and go like good and bad weather. They love being around you when the sun is out, But the minute the weather changes and the rain starts pouring down, they leave you high & dry and are nowhere to be found. But thats ok though. Most people in life are like that. Everyone just isn’t built to be around you through all 4 seasons of your life. Only lifetime people can love you in that capacity. But always remember this, When people start changing on you, It is your responsibility to adapt to the weather.
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It takes time

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You deserve to be in love but more importantly, you deserve to be in it with someone who deserves it just as much as you do. I promise you the other half to your missing piece is still out there. And when you finally come across that person, They will fit into your life easier than anyone you have ever dealt with before. But it also takes time. It takes life time to clear a path so the two of you can finally meet each other. It takes time for your needs and their needs to align so that the two of you can be on the same page with the things you want in your next relationship. And it is always better to wait and get it right, than to rush and get it wrong all over again.
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My Hope Is That…

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My hope is that when you find love again, I hope that it is everything you ever dreamed about. I hope that you find a love that has the power to tear down the painful walls of your past, so that you both can build a new wall filled with beautiful memories. I hope that you find someone who makes your heart beat faster. I hope that you find someone who you can; trust, communicate and understand on levels you never established with anyone before. I hope that they make you feel safe and protected. I hope they make you laugh, even when you don’t want to. I hope they make you smile, even when you can’t remember how. I hope they help you work through all of your flaws, so you can grow and evolve in ways you never knew you could. I hope they pour in you, and never drain you. I hope they make you shed beautiful tears in the quiet moments like you always see in the movies. I just hope that you find a love that truly makes you happy.
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The wrong person

You can try your hardest to work things out in a relationship. You can start over brand new. You can make a vow with each other to give more effort, show more love and be more respectful. You can do everything under the sun to try and prevent you and your significant other from failing but, you will never be able to fix picking the WRONG PERSON to work those things out with. If it isn’t meant to be, then 9 times out of 10 it will never be. Working things out depends a great deal on who you have picked to work those issues out with. You could be with someone for years and think that everything is fine but, beneath the surface that person still may never be as committed to keeping the relationship flowing in the right direction just like you. Some people are not planning on being in love with you tomorrow because it’s too much of a struggle lying to stay in love with you today. And it may not necessarily be something wrong with you. Sometimes, two people are just not a good fit for each other. Sometimes you break up with a person you never thought you would lose, just so you can finally find that person you never thought you would have.
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