Dating is a place where two adults set out to discover each other’s suitability for marriage. It’s where you go out to see who is compatible with you emotionally, mentally and spiritually. This is the beginning of where you learn about similarities and differences with each other. It’s two complete people looking for someone else they can spend the rest of their life with. It’s not a place for broken people to find healing at the expense of someone else’s time and energy. It’s not a place where you seek out someone to save you from bad decisions you have made in your personal life. It’s not a place where you infect people with your depression by passing your pain along. It’s a place where you both seek to bring value to each other’s life because you truly want to be happy.