Not Meant To Be

Morning Word
Sometimes things are just not meant to be. Sometimes the only way you can move on from someone is to realize that you gave it your all and that you loved them completely empty. I think that when relationships end, the best thing that you can do for yourself is to, learn from what it is you did wrong and build on what it is you did right. Sometimes you may never know the true reason why it ended. Every question you have is not meant to be answered, and every person you love is not meant to stick around forever. Live your life in a manner that will always have you moving forward no matter what happens to you. Relationships that aren’t meant to be, always have expiration dates. Your “ending” is also your “new beginning” to do things differently and in a better way the next time love decides to come around again. And when it does, try your best loving that new person like you have never been hurt before.
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You Need Love

Morning Word
If you are not careful, the world will try its best to harden you and make you feel like you do not need love. It will send you people who you trusted with all of your heart, to break your spirit. It will throw all kinds of problems and drama your way hoping that you move further and further away from someone else’s love that can bring you peace. It will have you thinking that it’s better to be independent, than to be in someone else’s arms deeply in love. It will try to use your past pains against you hoping that you never give another person the benefit of the doubt ever again. Don’t let the world emotionally desensitize you and make you feel like you can live without the best thing that could ever happen to you. When it’s the right time, the right person and the right love for you, there truly is no greater feeling. You need love, It’s just that some of you don’t know how bad you do.
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One Day

Morning Word
One day someone will walk into your life and bring all of the beauty you never saw in yourself back to the surface again. It won’t seem forced. It won’t feel like a hidden agenda. You actually won’t even notice how easy your walls came down until after the fact. Special people have ways of reaching places inside of you that you normally wouldn’t allow people into. They earn your trust. They make you feel safe. They give you a reassurance that they aren’t out to hurt you. And when bad times do arise, they end up becoming the first person to wipe your tears or the last person standing to help you fight your fears. One day a person like this will definitely walk into your life and make you feel like being in love is actually pretty easy. And “easy love” is just the best love you can have.
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A person

Morning Word
A person you can tell your whole life to, Is a person worth spending your whole life with. The highest level of intimacy is when two people can share secrets with each other that they never shared with anyone else and reach a deeper respect, bond and love with each other. Reaching from a dark painful place can be scary. But when you have someone who can light your soul on fire and have you glowing from the inside out, It isnt as bad. Because no matter how dark your past may be, Having someone who can illuminate you at the drop of a dime is priceless.
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Drama

Morning Word
You could be heaven sent and still be with someone hell-bent on keeping drama in your life. You are not doing anyone a favor remaining loyal to someone else who keeps you in draining situations. What if I told you that you still have the right to walk away from anyone walking all over you without you feeling guilty about it? What if I told you that love wasn’t meant to make you feel like a prisoner surrounded by four walls of pain, but it was meant to make you feel alive and free like you just experienced emotional deliverance. Stop expecting cheap people to know your worth. Stop giving ungrateful people the very best parts of you. And stop acting like just because you signed up to be in love with someone, that means that you “have to” keep yourself tied to dreadful situations. When you see that someone you are involved with doesn’t care about how they handle your heart, it becomes your responsibility to take it back and do what is best for YOU. You are not responsible for someone else hurting you, but you are responsible for how long you allow them to hurt you. And I want you to be happy again.
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Love Collab

Me and a friend decided to do a collaborative conversation piece on love. Please follow her on instagram:@thoughtforthebeautifulmind

Her Piece,
Love may not be complicated, but heck people make it to be.
Look at yourself! Don’t you know how hard it is to give all of myself and end up broken?
How could you come into my life just like that knowing full well that you’re going?
Why profess all this “relationship goals” from the start when you won’t finish it.
Tell me, about this game you play, because if you told yourself how you have grown, then why be indecisive what’s up between us.
Look at me and pause. Can’t you see all the times I’ve been hurt?

My Piece,
I never planned to fall in love with you, we both know that just happened. And looking back on everything now, if I knew this was going to be the outcome, I probably would have stopped myself a long time ago.

But let’s be clear, you are not the only one that is hurting. I gave to the relationship just like you gave to the relationship. I’m not the kind of person that just sits back and watches the person I am in love with do everything all alone. I always enter relationships with the best intentions. I really thought we both had a shot at being partners in life. But just because we both may want it, it doesn’t mean that it was ever a part of God’s will.

Maybe we got stuck at a crossroads. Maybe I got tired of wishing you would appreciate me more, and you got tired of waiting for me to be this man I never saw myself becoming. Maybe I’m drained. It’s hard to feel wanted when you don’t feel appreciated.

You want me to look at you now because you are dealing with pain. Well I got news for you, so am I. You wouldn’t pay attention when I tried to bring you joy, but now you want my undivided attention when you are hurting. It just doesn’t seem fair…

Your Worth

Morning Word
So many people fall in love with the wrong person, and then allow that person to make them feel like they are not fit to be loved. You will never get what you are worth if you are always waiting for other people to appraise your value. Whether you are single, alone or in a bad relationship, you should always have an understanding of how valuable you are and how valuable you can be to someone else. And if it takes for you to be single for 5 or 10 years until you finally meet someone worth taking a chance on then so be it. Don’t put yourself out there if it doesn’t feel right. Don’t put yourself out there if the other person keeps raising all of these doubts inside of you. Wait for your special moment. Wait for your reason to smile every morning. Wait for the one willing and ready to be your teammate in life. Forcing chemistry is not the same as actually having chemistry. And that person out there, is still worth waiting for.
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Dreams and Love

Morning Word
Never let anyone talk you out of something God already talked you into. As a matter of fact, don’t even share your dreams with unbelievers. Don’t even share your happiness with the miserable. Most people who are selfish, Will only cheer you on from their level of vision and what they see taking place in “Their” own life. So if you had a major breakthrough towards a dream keep it to yourself. If you found someone special who makes you happy, Keep them to yourself. When God starts shining favor over you, There is always someone out there rushing to throw shade over everything.
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It’s not always the man’s fault

Morning Word
Every time a relationship ends, it is not always the man’s fault. Sometimes women can have this misconception that men do not value healthy relationships anymore. They will take a few bad apples (in this case men) who have emotionally, verbally and physically abused them, and use this as a gauge to measure other men by which isn’t fair. Sometimes a woman can run a man off because it is impossible for her to conceive the idea that he really wants to bring her more pleasure than pain. Two of the biggest problems men often face is; dealing with the mistakes another man made before him, and having to prove himself over and over again to a woman who just can’t receive his love as being genuine and from the heart. Using past experiences to unfairly judge someone new in your life, will have you missing all the small details that truly makes them a special person. If you have a man that truly wants to love you, then let him love you without using your past to sway how you will love him back in return.
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It would be nice to meet a man…

Morning Word
Every guy always does the same thing to her, paint fantasies of a beautiful love connection, and ends up being her nightmare. For once in her life she just wants to feel something real. It would be nice to meet a man ready to love in the same capacity like she is. It would be nice to meet a man more in love with her spirit than her body. It would be nice to meet a man who understands the importance of painting heaven around her so she can always move freely like his guardian angel. She just wants to feel desired and loved for who she is, and not for who she can be. She just wants to meet a man that she can fall in love with over and over again, in new ways every day.
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